Working with a client who declared she could not give presentations. I asked: ‘How do you know?’ After staring at me her eyes defocused. She looked slightly upward and said: ‘Well, at the very thought of it I just freeze and get anxious. I hear everyone laughing at me and my mouth goes dry, my [...]

Despite all its stress and negative emotional qualities being fearful can be a very helpful state. But only if you are prepared to dig a little deeper when it’s around.
Find Out What it Really Means
There are only two basic fears in life. First is fear of falling and the other is loud noises. [...]

By the time I see a client for help with weight loss they’ve tortmented themselves endlessly with the above question. As a result they’re feeling helpless and clueless as to how to stop the madness and just lose weight.
If you tackle the task of change by constantly asking yourself the above kind [...]

Have you sometimes left a meeting or conversation feeling disappointed with yourself? Perhaps you felt you got too emotional or didn’t give your best? Did you then pledge to yourself to change and not let it happen again only to find it’s just impossible to stop?
Don’t worry you are not the only one with this [...]

When you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed at work, or that you just don’t get anything done and most of your time is spent worrying about work it may seem trite to ask - is it all in your mind?
But that is a good question to ask yourself when your head is buzzing and you [...]